First let me begin by saying that I am not homophobic. I do not judge those who identify themselves as being gay. My God in the wonderful book He wrote called "The Bible" tells me that whoever is without sin should cast the first stone. Alas, I do not have the right to throw that stone. In the same book He tells me also to point out egregious violations of His law to my brothers and sisters. So I have to point out to those that practice homosexual acts appear to be acting contrary to the Law of God. I heartily recommend that such practitioners reflect on their actions and decide for themselves if what they are doing conflicts with what is taught in the Bible.
As far as "gay marriage" goes, I am very sorry to say that there is no such thing as gay marriage. there never has been nor will there every be. True, as a matter of law there might be a statute that says it exists but that is on the books of law written by man and this law goes against the laws that God has set up for man to follow.
Some will say; "That's fine for you, but me, I am not a Christian, as a matter of fact I am an atheist and I do not believe in the fairy-tails in your Bible so why should I care about what you say?" The fact of the matter is simple. The fact that you do not believe the truth does not make it any less true. If you stated you did not believe in the rule of gravity and stepped off the roof of a twenty story building since you reject gravity, does that mean you will float? Certainly not! The self operating rule will claim its power over you and you will have a few seconds before the sudden stop causes the life forces in your body to depart and you finally find out if there is a God or not. So truth is unchangeable law and that type of law is written by the Creator. He wrote the rules of science to keep the universe working at His pleasure. He created a world for you and me. He provided you with a mother and father so as to participate in His creation.
It is this procreation that makes gay marriage a farce. Marriage was instituted by God because he knew that it was not good for man to live alone. He created a woman for man and instilled in them the instinct to propagate the human race. He told us to be fruitful and multiply. The marriage act is the way man and woman participate in bringing life into the world. Sexual activity between two people of the same sex cannot bring life into the world. Some might say that every act of intercourse between man and woman does not result in conception and they would be right. It is God's timing that counts.
So, gay marriage exists on paper but not in the reality of the spirit. No matter how loving a relationship between two people of the same sex is, not matter how many legal papers are in their possession stating that the two have become one, that union is according to man and is not recognized by God. This is a hard truth but it is truth none the less.